Hamudi mvumo yemumwe wenyu yekurambana muNetherlands. Kurambana kunobvumirwa nechikonzero chimwe chete - chekuti muchato waparara zvachose - uye kutaura kwemumwe wevakaroorana kuti ndizvo zvazviri kwakakwana. Kana mumwe wenyu akaramba kushandira pamwe, gweta renyu rinoisa chikumbiro chemumwe munhu, uye dare rinobvumidza kurambana kunyangwe paine kuramba kwemumwe wevakaroorana.
Chinokanganiswa nekurambana inguva yakatarwa uye mari inoshandiswa, nekuti zvese zvine chekuita nekurambana - vana, imba, penjeni, mari yekuchengetedza - zvinofanirwa kusarudzwa nedare pane kuti zvibvumiranwe pakati penyu.
Mashandiro anoita chikumbiro chemunhu mumwe chete
Gweta rako rinogadzirira chikumbiro chinotsanangura zvauri kukumbira kudare: kurambana pachako uye chero zvimwe zvinhu zvekuwedzera. Chikumbiro chinopihwa kumurume/mukadzi wako nedare redzimhosva, uye kubva ipapo murume/mukadzi wako ane nguva yekuzvidzivirira.
Kana pasina dziviriro yakaendeswa kudare, dare rinogona kugadzirisa nyaya yacho pasina kunzwiwa kwenyaya. Kana dziviriro ikaendeswa kudare, dare rinowanzo nyora nyaya iyo mativi ese maviri anotongwa risati rasarudza. Mumwe wako anofanira kuraira gweta kuti azvidzivirire; mumwe munhu asingateereri zvachose mafambiro enyaya haamudziviriri, anongorasikirwa nemukana wekuchinja mhedzisiro.
Zvinogona kupikiswa nezvinosagona kupikiswa newawakaroorana naye
Kuramba kurambana pachako hakumbobudiriri. Kana mumwe wevakaroorana achiti muchato waparara zvachose, dare rinobvuma kuti waparara; muchato haugone kutsigirwa nekusada kwemumwe wevakaroorana kuti uparadzwe.
Nyaya dzekuwedzera inyaya yakasiyana, uye ndipo panobatsira kudzivirira nyaya yacho. Kuchengetedza, kugovaniswa kwemidziyo, kurongeka kwevana nekushandiswa kwemba yemhuri zvese zvinokakavadzana, uye ndizvo zvichaitwa mudare.
Vana uye hurongwa hwekurera vana
Kana paine vana vadiki, chirongwa chekurera vana chinodiwa. Zviri pachena kuti kushanda pamwe chete kuri nyore kana vabereki vese vachibatsira, asi kusavapo kwacho hakudzivisi maitiro acho: unogona kutsanangura muchikumbiro kuti ndezvipi zvawakaita uye nei pasina chirongwa chakabatana chaigona kugadzirwa, uye wotsanangura gadziriro yauri kuda. Dare rinozosarudza chirongwa chekuchengeta mwana uye mari yekuchengeta mwana pachayo.
Kana mumwe wako asingawanikwe
Mudzimai asina kuzivikanwa kwaanogara haadzivisi kurambana. Basa remhuri rinogona kuitwa nenzira yakatarwa, uye nyaya yacho inoenderera mberi. Izvi zvinoda kungwarira, nekuti zvikanganiso mubasa remhuri zvinogona kukanganisa sarudzo yacho gare gare, uye zvakakodzera kuti zviitwe nemazvo.
Kunyoresa kunoita kuti zvive zvekupedzisira
Kurambana kunotanga kushanda chete kana mutongo wedare wanyoreswa mugwaro rezvemamiriro emhuri, uye izvozvo zvinofanirwa kuitika mukati memwedzi mitanhatu kubva pakatanga mutongo. Kana mumwe wevakaroorana apihwa mvumo uye asingakwidze nyaya, mutongo wacho unova wekupedzisira mushure menguva yekukwidza nyaya; ipapo ndipo panogona kuteverwa kunyoresa. Kusavapo kwemwedzi mitanhatu zvinoreva kutangazve.
Mibvunzo inowanzobvunzwa
Mudiwa wangu anogona kumisa kurambana here?
Kwete. Kuramba kushandira pamwe kunononotsa nyaya uye kunoendesa sarudzo kudare, asi hazvidzivisi kuti kurambana kusabvumidzwe.
Ko kana mumwe wangu akasapindura zvachose?
Maitiro acho anoenderera mberi. Pasina dziviriro dare rinogona kusarudza pamapepa acho, uye richatonga pane zvimwe zvinhu zvichienderana nezvawakaisa pamberi paro.
Ndinoda gweta here?
Ehe. Chikumbiro chekurambana muNetherlands chinogona kuendeswa negweta chete, kungave chikumbiro chacho chakabatana kana kuti chakabatana.
Zvinotora nguva yakareba sei?
Kurambana kwemunhu mumwe chete pasina anopikisa kunogona kupedzwa mumwedzi mishoma. Kana paine dziviriro yakaendeswa kudare uye paine dzimwe nyaya dzinopikisa, zvinotora nguva yakareba.
Mazano ekurambana pasina mvumo
Simba rekukumbira mhosva imwe chete riri mukukumbira kwaro uye kuti rinopupurirwa sei, nekuti kana pasina chibvumirano dare rinosarudza zviri pamberi paro. Magweta edu emhuri anogadzirira uye anoita izvi, kusanganisira kana basa rakaoma kana paine nyaya dzepasi rose. Ndokumbirawo mubate. Law & More kuti tikurukure nezvemaonero ako.
