Une hukama hwepedyo nemwana mukuru wekurera, mwana wekurera kana mumwe munhu waunoona semwana wako? Ungada here kuita hukama uhwu hunokosha kuburikidza nekurerwa nevabereki vasiri vako, asi unofunga kuti hazvigoneki nekuti munhu wacho atova munhu mukuru? Nhau dzakanaka: muNetherlands, zvinogoneka kutora munhu mukuru mumamiriro akasiyana. Kunyangwe zvimiro zvakaomarara zvichishanda, mamiriro akasarudzika uye hwaro hwakasimba hwepamutemo hunogona kuve kiyi yekubudirira kunyorera chikumbiro. Foster care isarudzo kune vanhu vanoda kuwedzera kumhuri dzavo. Mune ino blog tinokurukura zvingave zviri pamutemo uye kuti tingakubatsira sei.
Sei uchisarudza kurerwa nevakuru?
Kutora mwana wevanhu vakuru hakusi kungoita zvemutemo chete. Inopa mabhenefiti epamoyo uye anoshanda, kusanganisira chokwadi chekuti kutora mwana mudzimba muNetherlands hakuna kunyanya kuwanda kana zvichienzaniswa nekurera vana kubva kunze kwenyika. Vana vanenge 700 vanobva kune dzimwe nyika vanogamuchirwa gore negore muNetherlands.
- Ukama hwemhuri hunozivikanwa zviri pamutemo: Izvi zvinogona kukosha mukuwana kodzero nemabasa ekugoverana mukati memhuri.
- Kunzwa kugadzikana uye kugamuchirwa: Kune vese vanotora uye vanorerwa, kurerwa kunogona kupa rugare rwepfungwa uye kubatana.
- Chiratidzo chekukosha: Kugadzira chisungo kunoratidza kuzivana uye rudo, izvo zvinogona kukosha muhukama hwemunhu.
Tichiwedzera pazvibatsiro izvi, kurerwa kwevakuru kunokwanisa kurerutsa nyaya dzine chekuita nekodzero yenhaka, kuve nechokwadi kuti mutorwa ane kodzero yepamutemo yekugara nhaka kubva kumubereki wokurera sezvinoitwa mwana chaiye. Inogona zvakare kufambisa sarudzo dzine chekuita neutano uye nyaya dzemari, ichipa mubereki wekurera mvumo yepamutemo kuti aite akamiririra mutorwa kana zvichidikanwa. Kuzivikanwa zviri pamutemo uku kunogona kunyanya kukosha mumamiriro ezvinhu apo munhu mukuru asina hukama hwemhuri huripo kana kuti zvisungo izvi zvakaoma kana kuparadzaniswa.
Mutemo unoti kudii nezvekutorwa kwevanhu vakuru?
Hwaro hwekugamuchirwa muNetherlands hwakaiswa muzvinyorwa 1:227 uye 1:228 yeCivil Code (BW). Muchidimbu, kugamuchirwa kunogoneka chete kana chikumbiro chakaitwa mwana asati asvika makore 18. Pane zvisizvo zvishoma kune vanhu vakuru. Panyaya dzakadai, dare rinotarisa mamiriro ezvinhu akasiyana-siyana uye kodzero yokuva noupenyu hwemhuri sezvinodzivirirwa neChikamu 8 cheEuropean Convention on Human Rights (ECHR).
Munhu mukuru angagamuchirwa rini?
Kunyange zvazvo chinodikanwa choushoma chiri chipimo chinokosha, pane mamiriro ezvinhu umo kugamuchirwa kwomukuru kungaruramiswa. Semuenzaniso, vatongi vanogona kufunga zvinotevera
- Ukama hwenguva refu hwevabereki nemwana: Kana paine hukama hwepedyo hwakafanana neukama hwegamuchidzanwa hwevabereki nemwana, izvi zvingava chikonzero chekusarudza.
- Mamiriro ezvinhu anokosha: Kushungurudzika, hudiki husina kugadzikana kana zvimwe zviitiko zvinotsanangura hupenyu zvinogona kuita kuti kurerwa nevabereki vasiri vako kuve kuri madikanwa mukukura kwemunhu mukuru.
- Kusavapo kwevabereki vokubereka: Kana vabereki vokubereka vasinga (kana kuti vasisipo) kubatanidzwa muupenyu hwomunhu mukuru, kana kuti vakabvuma zviri pachena kurerwa kwomwana, izvi zvinowedzera mukana wedare.
- Kugadzikana mupfungwa uye mupfungwa: Kana kurerwa nevabereki vasiri vako kuchigona kubatsira murunyararo rwepfungwa uye kukura kwekuzivikanwa kweanorerwa, izvi zvinotorwa senharo yakakosha.
- Nguva yekushandisa: Chikumbiro chinofanira kunyatsotsigirwa nezvikonzero nei kurerwa kwevabereki vasina kukumbirwa kare, semuenzaniso kusaziva nezvesarudzo dzemutemo kana bhondi yemubereki nemwana ichangobva kuumbwa.
Zvisinei, zvakakosha kusimbisa kuti mamiriro ezvinhu ari pamusoro apa haasi iwo ega zvikonzero zvichazoonekwa nemutongi. Mamiriro ega ega akasiyana uye anozoongororwa zvizere. Mutongi anozonyatsoongorora zvese zvine chekuita nemutemo, zvepfungwa uye zvinoshanda. Ufakazi hwakadai sekutaura, mishumo nemienzaniso chaiyoiyo youkama hwomubereki nomwana huchava hwakakosha mukupwisa mutongi. Kuburikidza chete nekuongororwa kuzere kwemamiriro ako chaiwo ndiko kunoita kuti chikumbiro chekugashira chigone kusimbiswa. Kambani yedu ine ruzivo rwakakura mukuratidza mamiriro ezvinhu akaoma kudaro.
Pamusoro pezvikonzero izvi, dare richafungawo zvishuwo nemvumo yemunhu mukuru kuti agamuchirwe, richiva nechokwadi chokuti kurerwa kwacho kunoenderana nezvishuvo zvavo zvomunhu oga uye zvakanakisisa. Muitiro wacho unoremekedza kuzvitonga kwomunhu mukuru uye unovavarira kudzivisa rudzi rwupi norwupi rwokumanikidzira kana kuti dzvinyiriro isina kufanira. Zvakakosha kucherechedza kuti kutorwa kwedzimwe nyika kwakaomeswa nechando kubva muna Kukadzi 2021 kusvika Mbudzi 2022 nekuda kwekunetsekana nezvemaitiro apfuura.
Maitiro ekugamuchirwa anoshanda sei?
Maitiro anotanga nekunyatsoongorora mamiriro ako. Zvino, kana iwe ukafunga kuenderera zvichibva pane zvakawanikwa, tinogona kunyora chikumbiro chakakodzera. Iwe unofanirwa kutanga maitiro ekugamuchirwa nekuendesa chikumbiro kudare muNetherlands. Izvo zvakakoshawo kuziva kuti iwe unofanirwa kuve mugari wechigarire muNetherlands kuti utore mwana wechiDutch.
Magweta edu anokutungamira nhanho dzese dzenzira, kusanganisira kuve nechokwadi chekuti une unomiririrwa zviri pamutemo, segweta rinofanirwa kuendesa chikumbiro kudare kuti ugamuchirwe muNetherlands. Kana uchitora kubva kunyika yeHague Convention, kugamuchirwa kunowanzozivikanwa muNetherlands, kurerutsa maitiro emutemo. Nekudaro, kana ukatora mwana kunze kweNetherlands, unofanirwa kunyorera mwana pasipoti yeDutch uye uve nemagwaro ekunze akanyoreswa zviri pamutemo. Ungangoda kuturikira uye kunyoresa gwaro rekuzvarwa usati wanyorera pasipoti yechiDutch yemwana wako wekurerwa. Zita remwana richaonekwa mupasipoti sezvinoratidzwa mugwaro rekuzvarwa kunze kwekunge rashandurwa kusati kwaitwa.
- Kuongorora mamiriro ako ezvinhu: Tinotarisa kuti hukama hwako nemunhu mukuru huchizadzisa zvinodiwa nemutemo uye kuti ndeapi mamiriro ezvinhu atinogona kuvimba nawo.
- Kunyora chikumbiro: Gwaro iri rine nharo dzemutemo uye humbowo hunotsigira nyaya yako. Isu takatsanangura kuti sei kurerwa kwevana mumamiriro ako ezvinhu kuri mune zvakanakira vese vane chekuita.
- Tsigiro yedare: Tichakumiririra pakunzwa uye tive nechokwadi chekuratidzwa kwakasimba kwenyaya yako.
- Mushure mekuchengetedza uye kutungamirirwa: Mushure mekutora mwana, ticharamba tichikupa zano nezvenhaka uye dzimwe nyaya dzemutemo. Chibvumirano cheHague Adoption Convention, chakasainwa nenyika makumi matanhatu nenhanhatu muna 1993, chinovimbisa zvakanakira vana mukurerwa kwevana uye chinopa hwaro hwekudyidzana nedzimwe nyika.
Maitiro ekugamuchirwa anogona kuve akaoma uye anotora nguva, kazhinji achida magwaro akadzama uye dzimwe nguva mishumo yenyanzvi kutsigira chikumbiro. Pamusoro pezvo, maitiro muNetherlands anogona kuve akareba uye anodhura, nemitengo yekurera mwana kubva kunze kwenyika kubva pa10,000 kusvika 40,000 euros kana kupfuura, kuita kunyatsogadzirira kwakatonyanya kukosha kuendesa nyaya inogutsa kudare.
Sei mazano emutemo akakosha
Kurerwa kwevakuru kunoda ruzivo rwakakwana rwemamiriro emutemo uye nzira yeunyanzvi. Kambani yedu ine ruzivo mukubata nenyaya dzakaoma dzekurera uye inogona kukubatsira kunyora chikumbiro chakasimba. Maitiro ekugamuchirwa anogona kuva akareba uye anodhura, zvisinei nekuti mwana anobva kunze kwenyika kana Netherlands. Semuenzaniso, nzira yekurera mwana kubva kunze kwenyika inogona kutora makore matatu kusvika mashanu. Pamwe chete, isu tichaongorora akasarudzika mamiriro emamiriro ako uye kuvaka nyaya yakasimba yekuita kuti kutorwa kuve chokwadi.
Nei kusarudza Law & More?
Isu tinonzwisisa kuti kurerwa kwevakuru kunopfuura nzira yepamutemo - ndeye mhuri, rudo uye kuzivikanwa. Kambani yedu inosanganisa hunyanzvi hwezvemitemo nekuzvipira kwemunhu. Isu tine ruzivo mukuita kwakaoma kutorwa uye tinoziva nzira yekuburitsa nyaya yako kuti uwedzere mikana yako yekubudirira. Mumakore makumi mashanu apfuura, vabereki vechiDutch vakagamuchira vana vanenge 40,000 kubva kunyika makumi masere, vachiratidza kukosha kwekurera mhuri mukuvaka mhuri. Nekudaro, zvakakosha kuti tizive kuti muna 2023, makumi mashanu chete kutorwa kwedzimwe nyika kwakaitika muNetherlands, zvichiratidza kuenderera mberi kwechikamu chekutorwa kwedzimwe nyika nekuda kwemaitiro asiri pamutemo apfuura. Huwandu hwekutorwa kwedzimwe nyika hwave mukudzikira kwakadzikama kwemakore pamberi pechikamu chazvino chekubuda. Semuenzaniso, vana makumi manomwe vakarerwa muNetherlands muna 2020 panguva yeCOVID-19 denda, uye vana zana nemakumi mana nevashanu vakatorwa muna 2019.
Nerubatsiro rwedu, unogona kuvimba
-Yakarongedzerwa zano: Yese nyaya yakasarudzika uye yakakodzera maitiro emunhu.
-Kukurukurirana kwakajeka: Isu tinotsanangura mazwi akaomarara emutemo mumutauro wakajeka.
- Rutsigiro rwakakwana: kubva pakubvunzana kusvika pakunzwa uye nekupfuura.
Vanhu vasina murume vanogona zvakare kutanga nzira yekurera mwana kana vakachengeta nekurera mwana kwerinenge gore rimwe chete. Kana wakaroora, unokwanisa kutora mwana zvisinei kuti wakaroora kana kuroorwa nemumwe wako kana wawakaroorana naye. Iwe unofanirwa kuve uine zita idzva rakawedzerwa pachitupa chekuzvarwa usati wanyorera pasipoti ine zita rakagadziridzwa.
-Yakarongedzerwa zano: Yese nyaya yakasarudzika uye yakakodzera maitiro emunhu.
-Kukurukurirana kwakajeka: Isu tinotsanangura mazwi akaomarara emutemo mumutauro wakajeka.
- Rutsigiro rwakakwana: kubva pakubvunzana kusvika pakunzwa uye nekupfuura.
Takabudirira kubatsira mhuri dzakawanda kuburikidza nenzira dzakaoma kunzwisisa dzekurera vana. Isu tinonzwisisa kukosha kwekugadzirisa masevhisi edu kune yega yega nyaya.
Kurerwa kwako kunotangira pano
Unoda kuziva zvakawanda nezvesarudzo dzako dzekurerwa nevakuru kana imwe mhuri mutemo zvine basa here? Bata nesu nhasi. Isu tiripo kuti tikubatsire nhanho dzese dzenzira. Ani naani anoda kuendesa mwana muchengetedzo anofanira kushanyira webhusaiti yePleegzorg kuti awane rumwe ruzivo.